Episode 1: Matt & Sarah Brown | Sharing our Strength

Matt is a world-ranked barber and hair-artist. His barbershop has become a space for men to talk about their life without being judged. With the support of Sarah, he worked through his childhood traumas by being vulnerable and sharing his own story. We recommended to watch with subtitles due to some loud birds.

"It was either suicide or look for help - those were my two options. And I went looking for help." Welcome to Season 2 of Tough Talk, Going Deeper! These conversations are shared with the intention of breaking down the stigma surrounding men's mental health.

Episode 2: Caine Tauwhare | The Culture of our Ancestors 

Caine shares with us the practice of whakairo, or traditional Māori wood carving. He was taught whakairo from a young age, which he now uses to support people through mentoring and teaching. Caine communicates his wisdom about how whakairo expresses a deep connection to ancestors & land. 

THE CULTURE OF OUR ANCESTORS "These are the storybooks of our culture. They give a deeper meaning of what our culture represents." Welcome to Season 2 of Tough Talk, Going Deeper! These conversations are shared with the intention of breaking down the stigma surrounding men's mental health.

Episode 3: Richard Hurt-long | Kevin & Raewyn Crozier | Fighting Internal Fires

In this episode, Richard, Kevin, and Raewyn (Kev's partner) share their experiences of the Christchurch earthquake. Richard and Kev courageously talk about their huge losses as a result of the earthquake and the trauma from responding to the CTV building. They both emphasise how important the support of their fellow firefighters was for maintaining wellbeing through the disaster.

"That's what came out of the earthquake - everyone banded together. The whole city [Christchurch], everyone was there to support you. Work, friends, even people you didn't know." Welcome to Season 2 of Tough Talk, Going Deeper! These conversations are shared with the intention of breaking down the stigma surrounding men's mental health.

Episode 4: Doug Avery | The Resilient Farmer

Doug is a well-known farmer from Seddon who has experienced his fair share of hard times farming in the drought striken Marlborough region of the South Island. Having persevered through droughts, earthquakes, and more, after losing all hope and coming out stronger on the other side, Doug tells us what tools he's created for his mental and physical resilience. 

Welcome to Season 2 of Tough Talk, Going Deeper! These conversations are shared with the intention of breaking down the stigma surrounding men's mental health. Psychologist Sam O'Sullivan discovers solutions by asking men to share their stories. We all have times in our life when shocking or unexpected moments happen.

Episode 5: Sam don Barber | Meet in the Samwich

Sam don Barber is traveling Aotearoa in his van trading haircuts for services to raise awareness of masculinity, communication, and men's mental health. This is a thought provoking conversation that will lead you to question what it means to be a man.

"Guys have never taken a step back and said - Is this the role I want to accept in society?" The moment has come! We meet Sam Don Barber on a beach in Tauranga, park our vans side-by-side, and kick back in The Barter Barber mobile to talk as seagulls fly overhead.

Episode 6: Harlem Ratapu | Transformed by Tangaroa

Harlem is a spear fisherman, bee keeper, and amateur film maker. He talks about how aggression in relationships was the norm for him while growing up, which led to challenges in his relationships as an adult. The natural world taught him how to let go. He discusses how he manages anger and is now a role model for others to live more fulfilled lives. 

In this episode, we meet Harlem Ratapu, from Rogue NZ, for a kōrero on his family's beautiful iwi land near Gisborne. He is a spear fisherman, bee keeper, and amateur film maker who is setting a good example for our young ones. Harlem talks about how aggression in relationships was the norm for him while growing up.

Episode 7: Zac Franich | Redefining Success

Zac, New Zealand’s own bachelor star and contestant of Dancing with the Stars, tells us about the environment of high performance sports – in the competition for “success” there is little energy for empathy. They also go deep into a conversation about masculinity, femininity, and redefining success and desirability.

On a sunny morning in Browns Bay as the beach fills with people going about their routines, Zac Franich, New Zealand's own bachelor star and contestant of Dancing with the Stars, sits down to tell Sam his story. Welcome to Season 2 of Tough Talk, Going Deeper.

Episode 8: Paddy Hawke | Owning Our Shame

In part 1, Sam & Paddy explore a common experience: bullying within friendship. We hear about Paddy's personal story of growing up, and how his relationship with his dad affected the way he acted toward Sam.

In part 2, Paddy tells us about his experience with managing stress, heavy workloads and burn-out. He shares a story about a time when he reached a tipping point, which revolutionised his approach to well-being and leadership.

After an epic day in Northland riding a quad bike with a local farmer, feeding wild boar and hanging with a horse named Admiral, Paddy Hawke & Sam sit down to discuss the darker origin of their friendship while overlooking the beautiful Whangaroa harbour.

Episode 9: Michael & Joe Walker | Back from the Dead

Michael begins by telling his story of public service success in the Navy, Army, DOC, and much more. He then tells a second thread, which until now had been interwoven invisibly through his story – his mental health journey with depression, anxiety, and surviving multiple suicide attempts. 

"It's a great feeling not to be another statistic, and not to create more statistics for the future" We sit down in Michael and Joe Walker's backyard after a day of adventure in stunning Lake Coleridge. Michael begins by telling his story of public service success in the Navy, Army, DOC, and much more.

Episode 10: Tiaki Coates & Harmz de Thierry | Tears of Ranginui

Tiaki and Harmz from Poutama Tāne, a rites of passage organisation for boys and men, talk about their work with supporting fathers and sons through a Te Ao Māori lens.

Uploaded by Tough Talk on 2018-09-09.

Episode 11: Adam Sharplin | Breaking the Cycle

Adam is back from Season 1. We investigate the historical roots of Adam’s challenge with addiction as a young man and his journey to break the cycle of inter-generational trauma. 

After two laps of Aotearoa, we're back to where it all began - interviewing Adam Sharplin in his backyard to conclude Season 2! Welcome to Season 2 of Tough Talk, Going Deeper. These conversations are shared with the intention of breaking down the stigma surrounding men's mental health.